Clergywoman Funke Felix-Adejumo has encouraged married women to stop feigning a lack of interest in s*x.
In a video circulating on social media, she passionately shared her perspective during a church sermon, revealing that she enjoys s*x and it played a vital role in having her children.
“Who says women don’t like s*x? I enjoy it! If I didn’t, how would I have had children? You’re only pretending. Many African cultures have ingrained the belief that a woman shouldn’t express enjoyment in s*x, or they’ll be labeled as promiscuous.
The first step is to reject these outdated beliefs, as they can create problems in your marriage. Remind yourself: ‘S*x is wonderful! I want my husband.’ When you’re intimate with your partner, don’t hold back—embrace the moment!
Let’s move past this African mentality. The enemy uses such beliefs to undermine marriages because intimacy is incredibly important. Be playful with your husband! Touch him during your special moments, and when he’s finished, let him know he did a great job!”
Her exact words:
‘’Who told us that women don’t like s*x. I like s*x. If I don’t like s*x how will I have children? You are just pretending, you like s*x. African cultures have told you a woman should not show that she enjoy’s s*x oo! otherwise they would call her pr0stitute.
The first thing is to disbelief all that in your mind. otherwise you would be causing problem in your marriage.
Tell yourself ‘S*x is good! I want my husband. And when you are having s#x with your husband, don’t pretend and just be that missionary, Moan!
Don’t believe that African mentality. Let’s change it. The devil is using it to destroy marriages because that is the highest level of intimacy. Tickle your husband! Touch him when he is making love to you! When he finishes, tell him Good job!”