Lopez, 52, officially filed for divorce on Tuesday, August 20, citing “irreconcilable differences” and listing April 26, 2024, as their date of separation.
“It’s really hit her hard. She’s very upset and disappointed with Ben,” a source told PEOPLE on Wednesday.
This news comes amid speculation that Affleck has recently been spending time with Kick Kennedy, 36, daughter of RFK Jr. Sources revealed to DailyMail that while Kick and Ben are enjoying each other’s company, she is keeping their relationship private to avoid being perceived as a “mistress.”
Affleck and Kennedy had a brief fling before his reconciliation with Lopez in 2021, but the source emphasized that their romance did not overlap with his marriage to Lopez. It has raised eyebrows among Kick’s friends that Affleck is reconnecting with an old flame right after the divorce.
The insider noted that Kick views Affleck as intelligent and fitting her style but is keen to avoid any negative connotations associated with their connection.
In the wake of the split, Lopez is reportedly uncomfortable living in their $60 million Beverly Hills mansion, which is filled with memories of their time together.
Sources have claimed that Affleck’s “bad moods” contributed to the breakdown of their marriage. PEOPLE reported that Lopez spent considerable effort trying to support Affleck, often taking on a nurturing role. Despite being only three years older, she sometimes felt like she was more of a caretaker than a partner.
Friends of Lopez have advised her to stop trying to fix his moods, noting that she is not responsible for his emotional well-being. In contrast to Affleck’s moodiness, Lopez is described as having a positive outlook and being grateful for her life.
Another source close to Jennifer Garner, Affleck’s ex-wife, noted that he has struggled with stress and frustration, which affects those around him. However, Affleck reportedly thrives in work settings and enjoys spending time with his children, finding happiness in these aspects of his life.
PEOPLE also suggested that the couple grew apart due to the distance caused by Lopez’s extensive work travel.
