When argument happens, it is a series of propositions organized so that he final proposition is a conclusion which is intended to follow logically from the preceding propositions, which functions as premises. Winning your arguments literally means you are able to influence the other person with your words and reasoning. How To Win Arguments
To some, arguing is a battle – it is not an easy thing to win over people with your words when they have their own words to say; their belief. Argument is important and so vital, but what is more important is its presentation. How you present you proposition, how you coin your words will determine the impacts of your argument on the ears of your listeners. It is important to let you know that you can’t escape situations where you would have to argue yourself out, every ambitious persons would have to be skilled in argument presentation.
Winning arguments mean people have accepted you and your belief, it means they give you the permission to lead them. People might not be willing for you to lead them, you must earn it. Through your arguments, they want to see what you are capable of. They would argue with you to test your resolve. While everybody wants to come out on top in the face of arguments, they end up stirring resentment and ill feelings from the other parties. Arguments are there to be won, but it is won in a subtle way.
Below Are Subtle Ways To Win Arguments:
1. Win Through Your Actions
In contrary to your thought, winning through words does not always have a long lasting effect on people. Words are said to convince and confuse others, but in your attempts to convince others, you tend to confuse them and they will reply with rebellion acts. While words will win you arguments, your actions work better and leave a long lasting impression on people.
It is easier and much more powerful to get others to agree with you through your actions, even without having to say much words. Over time, your listeners have come to understand that words are a dime of dozen. In the heat of argument, people will say anything to support their cause even if it means to make reference to some unverifiable statistics. You are not exempted of this act.
No one would be able to argue with a demonstrated proof. When you think you have won through words, you can never be certain how it affects the people you are arguing with. These people might seem to agree with you on the surface, but they resent you on their inside. If your argument is what you can literally prove and demonstrate, then go into action and cease talking.
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