2. Don’t Even Get Involved
Sometimes when people want to get you to argue with them, choose not to give them what they are asking for – it is another subtle way to end and win arguments even before it started. If not always, the best way to win battles is to avoid them. This is to bring to your consciousness that most battles we engage in are avoidable; they are not necessary. All battles are not to be fought. If you fight all battles, your strength will be too weak when it is time for battles that are real and necessary.
Always choose your argument like battle carefully. If it does not matter in the long run whether the other person agrees with you or if you know that the experience they will have over time will make them understand what you mean, then it is even best not to bother with explanation or action. Save your energy and walk away.
3. Be More Emotional
You would be amazed to learn how great deal your emotion is when it comes to winning argument, you can employ the use of your emotions to trick and win over others. People argue for many different reasons, it could also be to distract and cover your tracks when you are practicing deception or are caught in a lie. When this happens, it is necessary to present your argument with all the conviction you’ve got. With emotions, you can draw the other person into an argument to distract them from your deceptive move and plan.
When you pour more emotions into your argument and you appear that you are very certain, the persons arguing with you will appear less sure of themselves and would argue less forcefully.
4. Talk Like Them
People move with nowhere to go – they move without direction. Also, people talk with nothing to say – they speak with no inspiration, thus, what they do is to blabber. One of the subtle ways to win argument is to take interest in what the other person says and appear interested. Tell them they have spoken well, that they are right then draw a thin line like border to construct your opinion while your opinion is affiliated with theirs.
Playing to the fantasy of people you are arguing with is a trick to win argument . Play on people’s need to believe to create a cutlike following to win them over with your opinions.
