Be a man of your word, let the world know your standard of living. This is what will earn you respect before men and women, the young and old that you relate with. Nothing will make you more attractive to people than this. Be this and it would be easy for others to embrace you. Everyone actually wants around them, good people. This should not be difficult for you to do. Talking about the basics, always do the simple things right. Never by any means take respect away from others.
Stop making negative judgmental assumptions about people, look for the good in everyone you meet and respect their journey.