1. He makes empty words
How many times has he fall back on his promises? He promised you things already but he has never been coming through with them. You want to trust him and believe his words, but he has been coming short of his words over and over again.
This is a good sign that he is only passing away time with you, playing hide and seek game with you. When he sly you often, he is playing you. When he backs out and say otherwise at the last minute, then you should know he is not the one for you. When it is time to live up to his words, he is dexterous in performing an action, so as to escape notice.
2. He keeps secret
He does not share his thoughts with you, he likes to keep his matters away from you. You can only find out his plans when he hatched them. When you see a man who claims to be in love with you concealing his intentions and keep you in dark, as he sees no reason why he should confide in you – then he is only playing on your emotions.
If you have never been sure of his next move, you have no clue of what he is up to. Then, he is using decoyed objects of desire and emotion (bond of love) to cover you in smoke. He is a player and nothing else. Your partner should made himself an open book for you; he is to reveal his plans and intentions … to talk about his feelings and plans for the future.
3. He is absent when it really matters
Does he like appear to disappear at will? He only comes to the fore when he needs it more and he won’t hesitate to go into hiding when he is not gaining anything. He goes missing when you need him most – he will always give excuses while he is found missing at every crucial point of your life. More than his presence, he gives you his shadow and constantly puts you in a situation where you will have to run after his shadow. If you see and hear from him less when it matters.
He is playing game on you when he withdraws from you in moments. Absence is a trial of love your partner should not put you through.
4. He acts like he care less
He cares less because he has nothing to give; he gives nothing because he has nothing to offer. He knows there is no future to what you both share, so you can’t see him contributing greatly to the relationship. He knows already that everything will go up in the smoke, so he looks disinterested in the relationship. Like he is forced to do one or two things – if you notice this, then he is not fully into you as you have hoped.
When you see him, always feeling reluctant to do things that he should have done differently, then it is a warning sign that things are not quite right. He is being careful not to be unequally yoked together with you.
