Mrs. Tammy Onyeke, the American wife of popular Nigerian stand-up
comedian Patrick Onyeke aka Mr. Patrick has revealed that their marriage is
in crisis.
Speaking in an interview with YouTuber, Obodo Oyinbo TV, Tammy
accused her estranged husband of lying and infidelity.
He recounted how her husband’s attitude changed after they applied for
his green card. Tammy alleged that her husband of 6 years abandoned her
since June 2021 and also pretended to love her so he could secure a Green Card.
Read what she said below:
“I don’t know what is going on with my husband. He came out with that
video to make those statements. That is not my husband, and he doesn’t do
social media tantrums. So when I saw the video, I texted my husband, “Is he
okay?” because that’s not like him.
“So since June, all these things have been happening to bring things to
you. My husband has been gone since June. He moved out of the house, and I have
only seen him twice. The six-year-old marriage is on the verge of a divorce due
to lies and Infidelity”.
Tammy also recounted the sacrifices she made including coming to Nigeria
to learn how to make Nigerian dishes after they got married.
Her words: “I have been married to my husband for the past six years.
When we first got married, I moved to Nigeria to learn the culture of how to
cook. After that, I thought of settling in Nigeria because I am an accountant.
“When I was in Nigeria for one year, we had light for only 45 days,
there was also fuel scarcity, and then the generator was giving me a headache.
I had a condition called Lupus, that’s why I am fat, many people made fun of
me, some said Mr. Patrick married that fat cow.”
Tammy who is an accountant revealed that issues in their marriage began
after she saw a text message from one of Mr. Patrick’s suspected lovers, a
Nigerian actress, whom her husband claimed was a ‘business partner’.
She said: “Our first misunderstanding began after a Nigerian actress
messaged my husband at 2 a.m. I thought it was an emergency. Maybe his dad and
I saw a message saying, “baby, I am sorry I slept off.” So I said, who is this
calling my husband.
“So I went to the actress’ page, I clicked on her story, there was a
video. I saw my husband and the actress talking to someone, and then I asked
the actress via her Instagram story, “Why are you calling my husband baby?” Do
you know that that actress deleted that story?
“I went to my husband, and I woke him and questioned him. He said it’s
not my business; he said it’s someone she was his business partner. I got all
kinds of stories.
“I noticed the difference when we applied for Patrick’s Green Card. He
started acting funny. He wasn’t kissing me, wasn’t touching me, for a whole
year, he was acting funny, and I said I can’t take this anymore.”
Tammy also narrated how her husband never bulged after she went down on
her knees to beg him.
She said: “As an American woman, I went to him, I got on my knees and
asked him, ‘my husband, if I have offended you, please let’s talk about it. He
kept quiet and stayed on his phone. For 15 minutes, I was on my knees begging.
He finally said you hadn’t done anything to me; I am provoked from work. You
know I am working. I snatched his phone. It can be the worst, and I haven’t
seen my husband since then.”
The lady who disclosed that she became worried after Mr. Patrick
left the house, said she went to his office only to discover that he had
changed his account number and was financing his alleged fancy trips with a new
lady.
Tammy said: “When he was gone, for two days I kept calling to know his
location, but on the fifth day I was curious to know what was going on with my
husband, so I went to his office. I found out that he has opened a new bank
account. So I got the bank account details, put it up online, and saw that they
bought two plane tickets.
“Patrick has been going back and forth to Maryland land for two months.
Usually, he would spend the weekend, but he started staying weeks in Maryland.
So I saw one ticket for a girl and the other for himself. So I called him, and
he said that the girl was his business partner.”