They Have Abnormal Fashion Habits
Ranging from the personality of the depressed soul – they are either overdress or underdress. Some of them don’t care what they put on, they are okay with simple wears, shoes and bags. A quick one! It is not that they are trying to live within their means. NO! You used to know them to dress better than now. And on the other hand, some would wear clothing which is to elaborate or formal for a particular occasion – to them, it is a means to conceal their mental state.
They May Have Trouble with Deep Relationship
They are afraid they will lose the relationship they have with you, if life eventually airs their fears and worries for all to see. They don’t want pain and woe that come with abandonment should people choose to walk away from them. They would rather have a superficial relationship with people. Once bitten twice shy, nobody ever want to relive their old pains.
They Expect ‘the Worst’ To Happen
They share the belief that ‘good times never last’ – it is so because they live in the world of ‘what ifs.’ Their plan would have many back-up plans – not that they don’t trust themselves to make things happen, but because they don’t trust life to be so fair.
They Pay Keen Attention to Things
People with depression would leave nothing to go unnoticed, they become so detailed and sensitive. Because they are depressed, they are careful with life, in their approach to things. They are observers of things and situations and go overboard in thinking.
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how They Provide Means of Sustenance for Themselves
A mind that sounds downbeat may take solace in music, exercise, reading book, a walk at night. It could be a phone conversation – this and many more are the habits that ease their pain and loneliness. Engaging in these activities keep them going and sustain them, they may feel alright.
People with concealed depression are always trying not to walk alone … are trying not to lose their sanity … are trying to keep their cool … are putting efforts in their life lest they are classified ‘walking dead’. I hope to see them smile and laugh genuinely soon, I would like to see them growing stronger that they may box out the bitter taste in their taste bud.
