6. Stop Sending: What Are You Up To?
When we send this text message to a guy, it puts pressure on him. He thinks that he has to come up with something interesting to say, and he doesn’t want to just text back “nothing.” Of course, that’s what he usually ends up saying, and then he wonders why he can’t come up with anything more interesting.
This is one of the text messages that guys wish that girls would stop sending. While it makes sense that we would want to ask him what he’s doing, it’s good to remember that he doesn’t love this kind of text. There’s definitely something that we can text instead.
Send Instead: Hope You’re Having A Good Day
It would be much better to text “Hope you’re having a good day.” This is sweet and simple and to the point. This is the kind of text message that would cheer him up if he’s not having the greatest morning or afternoon… and if he’s already in a good mood, then it would at least make him smile.
If we send this text message, no guy would complain or have a problem with it. It’s also a good text to send since it would get the conversation flowing. He can tell us about his day and ask about ours.
7. Stop Sending: Did You Get My Last Message?
Every girl has sent a guy this text. We just can’t help but text him this when we haven’t heard from him in a few hours.
This is definitely one of the text messages that guys wish girls would stop sending, though. It makes them feel bad and like they did something wrong by not responding. After all, there’s probably a reason why they didn’t get back to us yet. They could have been in a work meeting or running some errands. It doesn’t always mean something negative (but it can be tough to remember that). There’s something else that we can say to him.
Send Instead: Let Me Know When You Want To Hang Out Again
When we want to text him and ask if he got our last text message, we should text him this instead: “Let me know when you want to hang out again.”
This is more chill and will put less pressure on him. When we want to ask him why he didn’t answer our last text message, we’re usually in the early months of a relationship or we haven’t even gotten to that official point yet. Letting him know that we’d like to see him again and leaving the ball in his court is a good idea. He’ll like hearing this and will tell us when we can go out again.
8. Stop Sending: Why Do You Have To Go Out With Your Friends This Weekend?
Everyone has a different comfort level when it comes to their social life and how often they like to go out and have fun. Our new boyfriend might be super used to going out with his friends every Saturday night… and that’s not the best news for us because we want to be his Saturday night date every week.
When a girl is in this situation, she always wants to text her boyfriend and ask him why he’s doing this, but that’s not the best way to go. He’s just going to get frustrated and feel like she’s trying to control his schedule.
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Send Instead: Let’s Have Dinner Together On Sunday If You’re Free
Guys totally wish that girls would send this text message instead. It’s a positive text message to send our boyfriend or the guy that we’re dating since we’re asking him about plans instead of complaining that he’s not hanging out with us one weekend evening.
Sure, of course it’s legit that we want to spend more time as a couple, but we can talk to him about that in person. It’s so much better to text about making plans instead of trying to talk about more serious topics. It’s just not the best form of communication for that since so many things can get totally lost in translation.
