Relationship as a state of connectedness between people (especially an emotional connection) comes with some responsibilities to undertake. People are in relationship because there is a mission and vision in view. Healthy love relationship is mostly symbiotic- the very essence it is called a ‘relationship.’ Both guy and lady has a crucial role to play in making the relationship become their ‘dream marriage’. Inputs from both parties is nucleus that keeps the relationship alive. This article will only address the roles of man to her lady in their love relationship.
A lady has expectations; she looks up to you for some crucial things in your relationship with him (just like you also expect few things from her as well). Remember, both of you are at an emotional stalemate.
There are silent cry in relationship, she would have liked to open up and tell you many things (what she expects from you), but she is afraid lest you tag her ‘too demanding.’ She feels disappointed and hurt within, she might start resenting you and eventually give you up for another guy who will never fall short to discharge his emotional duties to her.
So, what are the those things you can offer her- as a man you are in that dating relationship leading to marriage
1. Make Her DREAM again.
She has her dreams before she consented to be in dating relationship with you. Help to chase her dreams- chase it as if it is yours. Let her see the future in your eyes, be responsible enough to let her see her dreams becoming a reality with you. Blues of life might cover her desired footpath with sand, take up the responsibility to remind her where to record her footprints on that covered footpaths. Talk about her.
2. Give Her SECURITY.
The security I want to talk about here is all about feelings. Women want to feel safe, most importantly emotionally. She wants to trust your strength, she secretly wishes to always come naked to you, so she wants to feel like you can handle whatever she shows you. She wants to feel like you will not judge her if she asks for something lewd. She wants to know you won’t collapse in defeat if she tells you to do it “that way” instead. With this, she will open more to you and will never talk to you in parable.
To her, emotional security comes first. Then other securities follow- financially.
3. Give Her the RECOGNITION She Deserves.
Women want to be seen, and mind you, they are not asking too much. It is actually their right. Don’t make her unhappy by going out with your friends always, and not with her. She wants to be seen, too. Give her time- she is upset about her day at work and wants to tell you about it. She is entitled to take some portions of what actually belongs to you in time and recognition. With this, you will bring her closer to you. Monitor her words, actions and moods.
4. Do Not Play HER ROLE.
Give her the sense of responsibilities she deserves, no one actually wants people to play their roles without their consents, don’t take her values and identities away from her. Doing what she wants to do without her consent is over boundary.
Man protects, woman nurtures- so give her chance to play her role. Women want to see the cracks in our armour, they want to see that we trust them enough to open up to them, they want to be able to help us through our sadness.
5. Make Her SEXUALLY WANTED.
All what women want you to do is to respect and appreciate their sex, they are dressing to kill for men, praise her body, handle her admiringly, tell her how evergreen her beauty is and how you can’t wait to have her. Say that soothing 3 letters word.
Register your appreciation before her, too. Tell her many things you cannot do for yourself, if not for her.
