Intimacy sparks feelings that are not visual between people,
feelings are intimacy’s substances. Since emotions that come through intimacy
are used advertently, it leads to trust and distrust, peace amd anxieties. Read
this post to learn the issues that come with your intimacy with other and how
to tame them to be so useful. There is no relationship without intimacy (be it
father-children relationship, teacher-student relationship).
1. ARIES (March 21 –
April 19)
You already have things planned in your way that is already
tailored to be actualized in your way. You have a weird feeling in letting your
partner(s) know that you have less to do with them, of course you wouldn’t want
them feel useless. So you tend to keep to yourself. However, down in your gut,
they are actually slowing you down in getting things done. So according to your
timeline, you must have desired things to speed up yet, do not try to ask too
much from them. Control and tame your independence!
2. TAURUS (April 20 –
May 20)
Once an agreement is committed on your part, you abhors
change-in –agreement (be it for the betterment of the agreement or otherwise).
You easily got stuck in familiar environment in such that you wouldn’t pass the
environment for anything. It takes time for you to accept change after you must
suffer inwardly in adopting and adapting to the new placements in agreement.
3. GEMINI (May 21 –
June 20)
Gemini suffers boredom easily in relationship
(work-relationship, love-relationship), there is usually something missing that
seems you are looking for. You spend less time and energy on people and things,
then you move on to somebody else or another thing. Maybe because of the
insecurities in you cause you to move easily and quickly from one pole to
another so that they will not be revealed to your intimate partner. Learn how
to believe that people can love and still be true to you despite discovering
your insecurities and secret faults. Give them a chance of doubt for you to
really have a deep intimacy.
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4. CANCER (June 21 –
July 22)
Your emotions are easily seen and observed, therefore people
tend to show you care and give you love. People enjoys being intimate with you
because your emotions make you more real to them, though you had desire to be
the one that takes care of people which you obviously do, and when your
emotions reveal you are down, people rush to welcome you and do to you what you
would have done to them.
5. LEO (July 23 –
August 22)
You let people see this thing is your show easily. Of course
your capability is so visual that people would agree that you know how to keep
it running, but at times, you don’t really know how to do it despite knowing
what to do. Then people fold their arms and watch you as they do not have a
sense of belonging in what you are doing- this is justified looking at your
initial actions. So Leo, learn how to get people involved, don’t create
distance to them via your actions. Acknowledge your weakness and you will have a good story of intimacy to
tell.
6. VIRGO (August 23 –
September 22)
You suffer low self-esteem, your weaknesses and secret
faults always blindfold your eyes not to see your strengths. You turn yourself
to become a less privileged because of inferiority complex. Of a truth, you are
the only one thinking this, not the people you are to associate with. At times,
the people around you often wonder why you choose to hide. Dear Virgo, come out
of your hiding place, be real and be yourself and enjoy fellowship with- this
is what intimacy is.
7. LIBRA (September
23 – October 22)
It is a good trait in you as you love focusing hundred
percent on what you do, but this makes you forgetful of your relationship with
people (no time to check them, no time to reply messages from them). As it is,
you create distance between them and you unconsciously. Your approach to
intimacy is wrong when you do this, intimacy comes with heart-to-heart
communications, dependency (to some extent). Be welcoming to people as you seek
intimacy.
8. SCORPIO (October
23 – November 21)
Truth to be told, you make people feel insecured because
they think you are so obsessed with them, and they are right if they think so
because you are really an obsession to them. Therefore people naturally do not
want to be closer to you as you would have love them to be. Your sharp comments
are not helping as well. You hide the deep of deeps issues about yourself to
yourself and you are obsessed to know that of others. You have to learn to open
up so that people will see and have at least a reason for them to come close
too.
9. SAGITTARIUS
(November 22 – December 21)
Sagittarius is just one tree that makes a forest (-according
to him). He enjoys independence, freedom, he abhors commitment, nothing must
not disturb him doing his things. Lmao!
Dear Sagittarius, how long will you do this? Look for one person to commit
yourself to that you may truly live and enjoy life. This person would provide the
missing link you have long for, actually you will not know there are links
missing in your supposed independent life until this person comes in and get
ready to reward the person diligently in your ways as well. Intimacy is
actually a two-road path; Give and Take.
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10. CAPRICORN
(December 22 – January 19)
You will never show you are hurt, even if you are. I do not want
people to know that I am weak, I must represent myself well despite I need
support, but no I will not show it- -Capricorn, this is the life you are living.
As others take strength and help in you, you will not. No wonder you wear-out easily and shamefully.
You have to let down your almighty guards, seek repose in people where
necessary that you may last longer- – This is one of the things intimacy
offers.
11. AQUARIUS (January 20 – February 18)
You keep your emotions in prison, unknowingly to you; you
have caused to yourself what you are afraid of people doing to you. You have
troubles in making light of your emotions, what you say is not what you feel.
So deep down in your heart, there are pains and burdens all over. You think
keeping to yourself is the best way to keep your freedom from people. What you
suffer from the outcome of your decision is beyond boredom, it is LONELINESS.
If you know the dangers that come with loneliness, you must have run to people
and open your heart as you share your thoughts to them. This is how you can
feel intimacy.
12. PISCES (February
19 – March 20)
In your natural and emotional state, you are the direct
opposite of intimacy (how come there is no word call en’timacy to describe
you). Pisces love to be alone, since you do not know you want for yourself, how
do you appeal to others? We are ‘jack of all trades, ….…’ (you know the rest).
We are not real (I choose to use ‘We’ because I am one of them). Pisces think
they know but upon closely examination, it is the contrary. To break out from Pisces’ faults, I took some
time alone to find and redefined myself to meet people’s need. The secret here
is MEDITATION, there you will find strength that aid your dealings with people.
The Intimacy Issues And Facts According To Each Zodiac Sign
is written by Ola Moses
