Suellen Carey, a Brazilian influencer and model who gained attention last year for marrying herself, has now decided to file for divorce from her self-union.
Carey, who had been praised for her bold act of sologamy—marrying oneself—has experienced mixed reactions to her unconventional decision. While some saw her act as a powerful statement of self-love and independence, Carey now reports dissatisfaction with the arrangement.
At 36, Carey initially put significant effort into making her sologamy work, even attending couples therapy alone. Despite her efforts, she found herself feeling unfulfilled and lonely in her self-marriage.
In a recent interview, Carey explained that she had high expectations for her relationship with herself, which she struggled to meet, leading to exhaustion and a sense of loneliness. This ultimately prompted her decision to end the relationship and seek a real partner.
Carey highlighted the importance of self-reflection and knowing when to end a cycle that isn’t working. Despite the challenges, she views her experience as a valuable lesson and is now open to pursuing new love.
Carey’s experience is not unique. In 2021, Brazilian Cris Galera also married herself but later divorced after 90 days to marry someone else. Similarly, in 2022, Indian woman Kshama Bindu made headlines as the first Indian to marry herself, inspired by a Netflix show and a desire to be a bride without being someone’s wife.
