Jennifer Lopez‘s mom Guadalupe Rodríguez is urging her daughter to leave Ben Affleck over fears the singer is losing sight of herself, according to insiders who claim her family believe she deserves better than a man who has decided to ‘throw in the towel’ instead of fighting to save their relationship.
The On The Floor singer, 54, and the double Oscar winner, 51, have been plagued for months by reports their two year marriage is in crisis, with pictures of them without their wedding rings and living in separate homes further fueling speculation they are on the verge of divorce.
MOM AND FAMILY WADE IN
Now Lopez’s mom, 78, is said to be firmly encouraging her daughter to ‘cut her losses’ and file for divorce so that she can focus on her career and her children – 16-year-old twins Emme and Max.
‘Jennifer’s mom told her, “Cut your losses and move on to avoid getting any deeper in this mess”,’ an insider whispered.
‘She told her that she’s wasted years believing that Ben was some kind of knight in shining armor.
‘He was not the person she built him up to be. It’s taken too much of a toll on her and because of this she has lost sight of who she is and what she stands for.’
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LOPEZ’S SISTERS THINK THE SAME
The source said Lopez’s sisters Leslie Ann and Lynda share their mom’s concerns and fear the singer and actress has lost perspective on what her marriage has become.
‘Jennifer currently feels like Ben does not deserve her and her sisters agree,’ they continued.
‘They want Jennifer to be happy, of course, but they feel their sister is getting so caught up in what it was supposed to be that she isn’t seeing it for what it is now.
‘They want her to file for divorce first and get on with her life – focus on her kids and career.’
